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Engagement Ring Buying Guide: How to Find the Perfect Engagement Ring and Wedding Band Pairing

Buying an engagement ring is a monumental decision, but the setting you choose today dictates the wedding band you’ll wear for a lifetime. From setting height to band thickness, every detail impacts both the sparkle of your diamond and the comfort of your daily wear.


As a family-owned pillar of the Nashville community, King Jewelers specializes in helping couples navigate these technical details to find a pairing that is as durable as it is beautiful.

High Set vs. Low Set Engagement Rings: Style vs. Practicality

The "profile" of your engagement ring (how high the diamond sits off your finger) is one of the most overlooked details in ring shopping.

High-set diamond engagement ring with flush-fit wedding band from King Jewelers.
High Set
A close up of a woman wearing a low set halo engagement ring.
Low Set

High-Set Engagement Rings: These rings feature a center stone set on long prongs or in a tall basket.

  • The Perk: They allow almost any wedding band to sit flush (side-by-side with no gap). Also, because the diamond is elevated, more light can enter the stone from all angles, maximizing brilliance.
  • The Downfall: High-set rings are known to "snag" on clothing and hair. 
  • King Jeweler’s Expert Tip: If you want maximum light return, our diamond experts often recommend high settings to let your GIA-certified stone truly "breathe" and sparkle.


Low-Set Engagement Rings: The center stone sits as close to the finger as possible.

  • The Perk: This is the most "carefree" setting. It’s ideal for nurses, athletes, or anyone with an active lifestyle.
  • The Trade-off: Most straight wedding bands won't fit under the diamond. You will likely need a curved or contoured wedding band.

Choosing the Right Band Thickness: Dainty vs. Durable


Band thickness isn't just an aesthetic choice; it’s about structural integrity. At King Jewelers, our master jewelers emphasize that an engagement ring should be built to last generations, not just the proposal.


Thin Bands (1.6mm):
  • The Aesthetic: These offer a "weightless" feel and make the center diamond look larger by comparison.
  • The Maintenance: These engagement rings are high-maintenance. Over time, precious metals wear down. A 1.6mm band requires more frequent inspections to ensure it doesn't bend or warp.


Thick Bands (2.0mm to 4.0mm):
  • The Aesthetic: A 2.0mm band is the industry "sweet spot." It looks delicate but offers significantly more strength.
  • The Benefit: These are lower-maintenance engagement rings and can withstand daily activity without losing their shape. For those seeking a bold, modern look, a 4mm band offers a stunning "cuff" effect.

Side Diamonds vs. No Side Diamonds (Solitaire)

The choice between a solitaire and a side-stone engagement ring setting changes the entire "vibe" of your bridal stack.

A solitaire yellow gold engagement ring.
Solitaire
A white gold engagement ring with side diamonds.
Pavé or Channel Set

The Solitaire (No Side Diamonds)


The solitaire is the ultimate classic. By choosing a plain metal band, you ensure that 100% of the focus of your engagement ring is on the center stone.


  • Best for: The minimalist who wants a timeless look.
  • Pairing Tip: Solitaire engagement rings are incredibly versatile. King Jewelers’ wide selection includes everything from classic 18K yellow gold to sleek platinum, allowing you to pair your solitaire with a high-wattage eternity band later to add sparkle.


Side Diamonds (Pavé or Channel Set)


Adding side diamonds adds "fire" to the entire circumference of the engagement ring.


  • Best for: The bride who wants an engagement ring that sparkles from every angle, even in low light.
  • Pairing Tip: You can go for a Matching Set for a seamless look, or a Contrast by pairing a diamond-heavy engagement ring with a high-polish metal band.
  • Expert Care: Because side diamonds are held by tiny prongs, they require a bit more love. We offer complimentary expert jewelry cleaning at our Green Hills showroom to keep those small stones secure and shining.

Choosing Your Stone: Lab-Grown vs. Natural Diamonds


Once you’ve settled on a setting for your engagement ring, the next big question is the stone itself. At King Jewelers, we believe there is no "wrong" answer, only the one that best fits your lifestyle and values. However, before you make your final decision, ensure you are well-educated on the key differences between a lab diamond vs. a natural diamond.

  • Lab-Grown Diamonds: These are chemically, physically, and optically identical to natural diamonds. Think of it as a rose grown in a greenhouse versus an outdoor garden. They are graded on the same 4C’s scale and offer incredible beauty at a more accessible price point. This often allows couples to choose a larger center stone while staying within their initial budget.

  • Natural Diamonds: Natural diamonds carry a billion-year legacy and a historic origin story. Because they are a finite resource, they possess a rarity that lab-grown stones do not. For many, the allure of a natural diamond lies in its symbolic value as a timeless heirloom, with a more established resale value over time.

Why Shop at King Jewelers?


Choosing an engagement ring is about more than just a transaction; it’s an experience, and it’s about a relationship.


  • Expertise: Our staff includes GIA-trained diamond experts and master jewelers who have been bringing dream engagement rings to life for over a century.
  • The King Jeweler's Advantage: We offer a Lifetime Diamond Upgrade Program for our natural diamonds. This allows you to trade in your original King Jewelers natural stone at any time for the full original purchase price toward a larger or higher-quality natural diamond.
  • Selection: From top designers like Sylvie and Kwiat to our own KJ5 and Ella Rose collections, we offer the largest selection of engagement rings in Nashville.
  • Custom Design: Can’t find the "perfect" pairing? Our custom design studio can create a one-of-a-kind ring from a sketch, 3D rendering, or even just an idea.


Ready to find your perfect pairing? Stop by our Nashville showroom today and let our family help you start yours.

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FAQ's

Should I choose a high set or low set engagement ring for more sparkle?

Choose a high-set ring. The elevated position allows more light to enter the center stone, maximizing brilliance.

What is the best band thickness for a durable engagement ring?

For a "carefree" experience, choose a band between 2mm and 4mm. While 1.6mm bands look dainty, they are more prone to bending over time.

Does a thinner band make a diamond look bigger?

Yes. A thinner band creates a visual contrast that makes the center diamond appear larger.

Where is the best place to buy an engagement ring in Nashville?

King Jewelers in Green Hills is widely considered the best destination, offering over 100 years of expertise, custom design services, and a massive selection of luxury designers.

Do I need a curved wedding band for a low set engagement ring?

Direct Answer: Yes. Because the basket of a low set ring sits close to the finger, a standard straight band will not sit flush. A curved or contoured band is required to wrap around the base of the setting.